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The John and Lorena Bobbitt Mystery, Unraveled
by David C. Reardon, Ph.D.
On June 23, 1993, Lorena Bobbitt, a shy, ninety-five pound U.S. immigrant
from Venezuela, cut off her sleeping husband's penis. Hyped by both journalists
and comedians, her trial in January of 1994 was the world's #1 media event.
People were shocked, and grimly amused by the nature of her attack.
Still, the aspect of this incident which perhaps most captivated the public
was its psychological mystery. People could easily understand how an enraged
woman might strike back at an abusive husband, and even attempt to kill
him. But why, everyone wondered, had Lorena confined her attack to his
penis? And what did she mean in her statements to police when she explained
that her husband was selfish and wouldn't give her an orgasm? Did this
mean that she mutilated her husband simply because he didn't satisfy her
sexually? Or, as the defense claimed, was she just an abused and psychologically
unstable person who, on that particular night, could not control an "irresistible
impulse?"
Specific details of the case raised even more intriguing questions.
For example, why did Lorena take the severed penis with her when she ran?
And if, as she claimed, she had been the victim of John Bobbitt's emotional,
physical, and sexual abuse for the three preceding years, why did she wait
to attack him on that particular night? Why did she refuse several offers
for shelter? And perhaps most bizarre of all, why did she pause when fleeing
the house to steal her house guest's video game?
Lorena's defense lawyers claimed the answers to these questions would
never be fully understood. But actually, even at the time of the trial,
Lorena's lawyers had far better answers to these questions than they chose
to reveal. It would not be accurate to label this lack of full disclosure
a "cover-up," since defense lawyers are under no obligation to reveal everything
they know. (See "Why the Truth Was Buried.") But it is fair to say that
the most important insights gained in this case have not been fully revealed
to the general public--until now. (See "The Elliot Institute's Role in
Uncovering the Mystery.")
In this special issue of The Post-Abortion Review, I will attempt
to show that the key to understanding the many otherwise outlandish aspects
of this case can only be found in understanding how Lorena was traumatized
by a coerced abortion.
At the time of her abortion, Lorena exhibited at least eight of the
high risk factors which reliably predict post-abortion psychological maladjustments.
The resulting psychological trauma devastated Lorena and created a cycle
of violence and abuse, between her and John, which destroyed their marriage.
This culminated in Lorena's attack on John's sexuality exactly three years
after the abortion--at a time when Lorena was suffering from a major post-abortion
anniversary reaction which included anxiety attacks, depression, flashbacks,
and psychosomatic symptoms.
In "A Story of Destruction: The Testimony" I have summarized the courtroom
transcripts regarding the Bobbitt marriage leading up to and including
the cutting incident. This is obviously an abbreviated account. Still,
I have tried to outline the principal points of testimony in a way that
reflects the claims of both sides.
In "Their Deepest Wound: The Analysis" I have drawn upon insights gathered
from other cases of post-abortion trauma to give you my views of how the
abortion affected Lorena, John, and their marriage. Finally, after a look
at what the Bobbitt case teaches us about "Abortion and Domestic Violence"
in general, I have offered my personal opinion as to whom the most
guilty party was in this tragic case.
Originally published in The PostAbortion Review 4(2-3) Spring &
Summer 1996. Copyright 1996 Elliot Institute
Related Articles (best read in this order)
The John and Lorena Bobbitt Mystery, Unraveled
A Story of Destruction: The Testimony
Their Deepest Wound: An Analysis
Why the Truth Was Buried
The Elliot Institute's Role in Uncovering
the Mystery
Abortion and Domestic Violence
Who Was Most Guilty?
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